Part of the erotica of getting eaten out is feeling like he’s doing whatever the f*ck he wants with you. Lift and wiggle his body like it weighs nothing. Think of it as finding his mood (he’s going to have a different one every night) and matching that mood to your own rhythm.
You need to build up from nothing in order for him to continue progressing long after you’ve finished. Feel the moment and explore every precipice you can while you can.ĭon’t chow down right from the start. While the anus is the goal post, it’s not going to be nearly as enjoyable if you don’t run the field first. Put pressure on his taint, rub his balls, breathe hot air on his upper thigh, kiss the outer layer of his butt cheeks. If you only stick with the butt, you are ignoring some serious details that might make all the difference. When he’s bent over, you also have more opportunities to slap, jerk, and dry hump any which way you can, simply because the position allows you to do so. Watch his eyes light up with joy and pleasure because everything is being stimulated at once, so much so he doesn’t know where to concentrate. Hang his ass up in the air on all fours, and go to town. There are surprising nerve endings in and around the anus, but only when it’s spread wide enough – not too wide, but just enough.Įven if you might not like doggy when you’re getting penetrated, I’m telling you, it’s a whole other story when you’re getting rimmed, honey. He’ll feel the strength in your grip, which will force him to give in to you. When you’re going down on him, be sure you spread the cheeks so that your tongue can get where it needs to go. Part of the pleasure of receiving is surrendering to the man. The feeling of getting your ass squeezed is nice, when it’s done right that is. Spread his cheeks wider so you can stimulate the nerve endings. Listen to what he likes (he’ll make noise or his body will tremor), then let your tongue lead you back to those places. This way, he’ll be able to transfer some of those shivers to other moments. It’s important for him to feel shivers not just on his ass, but the areas around it too. Imagine your tongue is an explorer – around the balls, into the anus, then up around the cheeks and back to this penis, then down again. Licking is like roaring up the engine, don’t forget to do that first! Once it gets started then the whole thing seems to magically come to place. It’s the very thing that triggers us and sends those lovely shivers down our spin and ass when getting rimmed. Most teasing is a mental kind of warm up, giving him (the receiver) a wider range to give himself to you. Rub his balls, massage his thighs, get his groin wet and slippery – the rest he is sure to do himself. Work your way around the body before making him loose enough to be open.
Like other forms of foreplay, rimming requires a bit of teasing first. You want to give a perfect rim job, follow my rules: We do not have a clitoris, obviously, but what we do have are tons of nerve endings that make us feel very happy when triggered – some dudes have less than others, which is why it’s important to explore his body a little before going to town. You need to have feeling, passion and, above all, a hell of an open mind. A good rim job doesn’t require a tongue alone.
The straight world lately has taken to a booty-eating craze, but gay guys have known about it since the beginning, honey.